Wednesday 1 February 2012

Keys To SUCCESSFUL LIVING

Keys To SUCCESSFUL LIVING
Wouldn't it be amazing if you knew the single easiest way to become successful? No Matter What!"YOU Can Reach Your Goals and Achieve the Unthinkable and be successful, if only you can be able to practice this principles that you will be thought today, this program is tagged keys to successful living: keys are known for two powerful things to lock and unlock; meaning by applying this laws one is prone to experience success, and when ignored one’s success has been lock that he wander and struggles in vain (refuse principle regain confusion).
Chose what you want from life: The real secret to living the life of your dreams is this: learn to live at Peak Performance every day, and you will be unstoppable. You will be absolutely amazed when you discover how much more you can accomplish when you live life without limits, meaning that you have to know what you don’t want and what you want from life, because if you don’t know where you are going to, you don’t know where you will land, know the law that govern what you want and give the law all it requires and no less, learn to limit your option to one thing, many people want to be rich or poor while some other person wants to be rich or more rich, No matter what your situation is, right now you possess the potential to make your wildest dreams a reality...you just need to know HOW to achieve them, "The man who gets the most satisfactory results is not always the man with the most brilliant single mind, but rather the man who can best coordinate the brains and talents of his associates." But first your talent, many a times our talent is the ladder which we need to reach our desired success, many a times too many people go about looking for a job while their talent can create job for so many job-seekers, why because our talent is our treasury, look and think beyond what you see yourself accomplish in the past, for to him that is tied for a living, there is hope, if only he can dare to dream positively big. Look at football it has become a big thing that watching it alone gives some one money let alone the player himself. How would you like to be "the one" that leads your company to success? Or would you like to put your career on the fast track and skyrocket your income? Then you just have to define what you want and do all that is necessary to give you a positive result, you get money when you can meet a need.Our society is full of problems and lapses crying for solution, look around you, there are frustrations around, things that you think people need. If there are no barbing saloons around, why don’t you set up one, if there are inadequate supplies of certain materials around you, why don’t you supply those things? THINK and you will discover the business opportunities around you. Ask yourself what societal need can I solve? A positive answer will make you rich or create job for you and others.
Refrain and abstain from un-impactful relationship: It is said that your friends are the reflection of your future; nothing brings transformation than relationship, for you cannot be faster than the company you keep, until you locate, links and connect with well meaningful persons you remain perpetually in the mold. Friends either add idea or take away your goal, they either multiplies you or divided you in to pieces. Your friends are the ones you give your ear time, you spend most times with, and can you be able to write down five of your friends that you usually stay with or listen to and analysis how impactful they have been to you? remember as you stay with them you listen to them and as so, you think over what two of you have discussed, and you know that as a man thinketh in his heart so he is, what you will be will be closely related to what you hear, know it that your ear are the most effective tools for your success, someone once asked me; who get your ear time? Is high time you decide what to do with all this your friends that constantly broke you down, because when you pretend to keep them you pretentiously danger your future, know it that the future you did not permit can’t be with you. Nobody has the right to chose you as friend but you have the ultimate right to chose whom you want to be friend, you better to be more loyal to your future than you are to your past, whatever you have is what you accept, if you don’t do something now you will regret it in future and mind you never blame anyone for bringing out the worst in you because if you don’t have the worst how can someone bring the worst in you, yes you cannot give what you don’t have. So be decisive and go for what you want, instead of finding someone to blame for your mistake, take action now and save your future, remember when you don’t build your future you live to help others to advance in their success while you remain perpetually under them and end up a slave in your own destiny .
Be creative always (using idea to add a plus to your experience)
Einstein once said, “Every child is born a genius.” But the reason why most people do not function at genius levels is because they are not aware of how creative and smart they really are. No idea can thrive until people know about it. For you to sell your idea you have to create a buzz. If people don’t know you exist then how can you sell to them?
But you don’t need to spend thousands of hours to increase your creative-thinking abilities. By practicing a few simple exercises and applications, you can start your creative juices flowing, and you may even amaze yourself at the quality and quantity of good ideas that you come up with.
Let’s start off with the definition of creativity. In my estimation, after years of research on this subject, the very best definition of creativity is, simply, “improvement.” You don’t have to be a rocket scientist or an artist in order to be creative. All you have to do is develop the ability to improve your situation, wherever you are and whatever you are doing. All great fortunes were started with ideas for improving something in some way. In fact, an improvement needs to be only 10 percent new or different to launch you on the way to fame and riches.
Your success in life will be determined largely by the quantity of ideas that you generate. It seems that the quality of ideas is secondary to the quantity and that if you have enough
Ideas, one or more of them will turn out to be prizewinners. Always ask yourself questions on anything you want to do, All improvements begin with questioning. If you are not making progress for any reason, stop and think, and begin asking yourself the hard questions that will stimulate your mind to consider other possibilities. Asking focused questions-hard questions that penetrate to the core of the matter-is the real art of the creative person. The next step is to have the courage to deal with all the possible answers. Once you have come up with a possible solution, ask yourself, “What else could be the solution?” If your current method of operation were completely wrong, what would be your backup plan? What else would you or could you do? What if your current procedure or plan turned out to be a complete failure? Then what would you do? And what would you do after that? All of those questions will force you to think further and come up with better answers. A good question to ask is “What are the three biggest problems that I am facing in my life today?” Write the answer to this question quickly, in less than 30 seconds. When you write the answer to a question in less than 30 seconds, your subconscious mind will sort out all extraneous answers and give you the three most important ones. When you have your three most pressing problems, ask yourself, “What is the worst possible thing that can happen as a result of each of these problems?” Then ask yourself, “What are all the things that I can do, right now, to alleviate each problem?” If you have
a problem that is worrying you for any reason, think about what you could do immediately to begin alleviating that concern. This is a prime use of your creative powers. So a key to success in creative thinking is clarity. Take the time to think through, discuss and ask questions that help you to clarify exactly what you are trying to accomplish and exactly what problems you are facing at the present moment. Just as fuzzy thinking leads to fuzzy answers, clear thinking leads to clear answers. Creativity is one thing everybody on this planet earth need because you cannot stand firm in a competitive market if you are not creative, and creativity works in line with thinking, so the big question here is what do you fix your mind on thinking most times, When you think you solve problem facing you and they once yet to come.
Plan your way to the top: know it that accomplishment without planning induce a lot of stress and take longer time to come, the most intelligent man living cannot succeed in accumulation money or in any other undertaking without plan. even armed robbers plan before engaging in any operation so why will any success desiring person not plan and set standard on how his life will be, the future you did not permit will not come to you, many people are afraid of taking risk but little did the not know that when they don’t plan their life well they have risk their life and may end up in the mould, many have given up on life on the excuses that they have been planning but all mount to failure. But just keep this in your mind and remember when your plans fail that temporary defeat is not permanent failure, it may only mean that your plan has not been sound, build other plans. Start all over again, is better redone than never done. Temporary defeat should only mean only one thing, that there is something wrong with your plan. Millions of people go through life in misery and poverty, because they lack a sound plan through which to accumulate a fortune. Your achievement can be no greater when your plans are not sound. No man is ever whipped, until he quits-in his own mind. If you give up before your goal has been reached, you are a quitter. Quitter never wins and winners never quit, when we think about Thomas A. Edison deeply you will understand that he is a man that never gives up rather he embraces they life of more deep intensive thinking even as he fail 10000 time, I could remember in one instance that his company burnt down, everybody expects him to be crying and even some people thought he would have killed himself rather he said that my failure have burnt down that my success will spring fort. See there is something more to this statement, it take a man that know that is not over with him to make that statement, always remember that it is not over until you win. no great man can say that he have never had set back before, they see it as challenges that wants to bring them down, yes but the take it on the angle that they failed does not mean that they are failure, is only my inability to get up and face challenges that sanctions me a failure. The average person tends to be rigid and fixed in his thinking about getting from where he is to where he wants to go. The creative thinker, however, tends to remain very flexible and open to a variety of ways of approaching the problem. The average person has a tendency to leap to conclusions and determine that there is only one way to achieve a particular goal. The superior thinker, on the other hand, tends to be more patient and willing to consider a variety of options before moving toward a conclusion. Put everything else aside, and concentrate single-mindedly on focusing all your mental powers on solving one single problem, overcoming one particular obstacle or achieving one important goal. The ability to concentrate on a single subject without diversion or distraction is a hallmark of a successful thinker. Between you and any goal that you want to achieve or any problem that you want to solve, there is almost invariably a limiting step or a “choke point” that determines the speed with which you move from where you are to your destination. This limiting step may be another person, a particular obstacle, a specific difficulty, or even a lack of some information or skill. Invariably, there is a particular factor that determines how fast you get there. Your job is plan about it and decides what it is, and then go to work to remove it. When you plan persistently you always have new ideas that make you indispensable in the world of achieving.
Processing your way to success: To the perfect making of any thing in life, it must go through some process, and have this always in your mind. No process is sweet or easy, rather every process is difficult, energy sparing and pain taking, but above all you must endure till the process over, yes before the beauty of anything can emerge, it must go through some measure process, but the problem today is no one want to go through process, everybody wants quick fixes, what that is meant to mature in 2years we want it in 2months. Noting makes a man, a champion like process, hear this God is a God of process not a God of quick fixes, if you really wants Him to bless you, you really must allow him to take you through the necessary process that will bring about your success. For every level of success, there must be a level of process, what most people may see as their difficult time isn’t difficult time but rather processing time, yes they see it as a difficult time, that’s why most people go through it without learning from it, your processing time is your tutorial time but until you see it as your tutorial time you cannot learn from it. Most of the things process can do in your is it gives you an ample opportunity to develop yourself in a particular scope or field, do you know that champion is not made in the ring, but during they processing time, yes the accumulation of the battle you have won and lost is what makes you a champion. The more battle you fight, the more skills you get, the more knowledge you harness, the more wisdom and strength on success you acquire, know it that successful people are people that fail over times but refuse to give up. Failure is a teacher, it makes you stand tall, and most success is birthed from failures. Yes when a baby is delivered less than 9month it is said to be immature, for you to mature over a thing that can make you successful you most complete the process cycle. When you abort your process, you abort your success and future. Be ready to go through your process time because process changes people, process changes a fetus to a baby, process changes crude oil into petroleum, gas, kerosene, so in the same vein process changes you from one success to another, it also brings out your real future and destiny.
Yes so many people want to be rich happy and successful, (because no poor man is successful) if not why do many of us engage themselves in one business or they order, yes everybody want to succeed but how many are willing to pay the price, take calculated risk in order to be finally successful.
Okay let’s see reasons why so many people that are working hard in other to succeed end up not achieving their dream.
Lack of persistence; most of us are good starter’s not good finishers, a persistence fighter, fight with his last blood, and he sees failure as mistake he made that can be corrected.
Negative personality; there is no hope to any man who sees and professes things in a negative form, yes as a man thinketh so he is, when one believes his linage, family or something is wrong with him that always brake him down without standing up to his responsibility, he remains perpetually in a cycle of defeat, sorrow regret and unhappiness.
Lack of definite goal; there is no hope to any man who does not have defined goal of what he wants from life, he is always confused and blame other people for their failure, and one truth about this things is that your mind will always tell you that you are not going any were and in order not to look foolishly most people imitate other people in other to make it, John Mansion once said imitation is limitation.
Not been decisive in life; so many people live there live as a servant to someone else because they didn’t set standard for their life, they believe what others said about them, in most cases is because it have happened like three or four times in their life, in such case they are always have excuses why they never do something at the end, putting the blame on somebody else.
Lack of self discipline; many can’t control themselves in public when the need arise, there by scaring successful people from communicating with them, you need to control all negative qualities before you can control condition, you must first control yourself, that’s why self mastery is very important, yes self mastery is one of the hardest job you will ever tackle, because if you do not conquer self you will be conquered by self.
Procrastinations; this has kept so many in the mould; it comes with weakness always giving you the thought to take action tomorrow, thereby eliminating the spirit of take action now. John Masons said that the only way to stop procrastinations is by eliminating and rejecting all the necessary reason for not taking the immediate action
Stop living on the idea of something for noting (gambling) for no price no success, when you pay the price of sowing a seed, you eat the harvest, there is no such thing in successful living as luck! All successful products are the birth of price worked along with determination.
Fear; it is said that fear is the chisel that carves out your future un-matured, when you don’t risk you risk even they more because you can’t get raw lasting success rather you live on remnant.
Jack of all trade masters of none!
Not investing in your own business!
Taking advice from unwise, inexperienced persons during hard times!
Always been unhappy and inability to eat good food always. Is only a healthy man that can dream and work hard to be successful?
Always be actively connected with your source (God) cut off with God you can achieve noting, so when you neglect to appreciate and connect with God you are bound to fail no matter how hard you fight to succeed.