Friday 6 July 2012

MEDICINE VS INFORMATION

                MEDICINE VS INFORMATION
     Medicine according to oxford English dictionary is defined as substance taken to prevent and treat disease, if one is sick and refuse to take medicine the sickness is bond to continue greatly, until you take the medicine no cure is guaranteed, but even as that you most know what is wrong with you so as to take the right medicine, there is no way you can do that until you visit a chemist or doctor and tell him what is actually wrong with you (that the symptoms). When you get the clew of your disorder or cause of your disorder the next thing is prescription of the type of medicine that your suppose to take to treat the sickness, some people it will require injection and drug while some only the medicine, that means the more the sickness the more the weeks or months to take your medication.

     One thing is certain no medicine taste sweet even the locally made once seems as the most bitter once, but even as that you must take the medicine or your sickness will continue which if care is not taking (which is obeying the instruction by taken the medicine) might lead to death. So until the medicine is trusted, accepted, taken and applied there will be no result. Result which is recovery is assured when the instructions are obeyed. People can pity and feel for you when you are sick but no one can kill him self for you to live let alone when you refuse to help yourself. So don’t let the devil put you in a tight Conner before you help yourself, why did I say this some people watch what the eat and rest very well, to avoid body disorder while some are very conscious of there health and body system that there are some signs that there body will display and the will de worm or treat themselves to prevent the sickness from maturing into a big one that can keep them at the hospital for days or weeks as the case may be. It is a substance taken to prevent and treat disease, that means actually you can prevent it before it kick start.

     In the same vein let’s look at another key word we are using in synonymous with medicine in this article as both observe and almost obey the same principle or do the same work.

                 INFORMATION / KNOWLEDGE

     Information on its own is defined as facts or knowledge provided or learned while knowledge is defined as information or awareness gained through experience or education. it is said lack of information is deformation, when one is not informed he do things that consistently put him into problem, it is only when you have the knowledge of some thing you cannot unknowingly fall in side the trap.  Just as in the case of medicine some can prevent theirs while some treat the sickness when it must have hold them down.  When you’re aware of some certain environment or area that is very bad you can never danger your life getting an apartment that axis. While some lived in that axis, it became bad (experienced it) and the have to live. But which ever way information made each and everyone of the to  make a move, so until your informed you remained deformed and in trouble. The first step toward getting information or having knowledge starts with awareness, you most be aware of the need and benefit of the change you want to adopt, before you fall into another bigger problem. Just like a person who is moving out from a bad area, the first  thing he consider before paying or moving to a new place is the security standard of the axis he is moving into and the security measures put in place in his new apartment, you see he is now security conscious based on his experience. In order to prevent further lost that alone prompted him to investigate from people living around that area what their experience is like. So you most first know what you want that is the kind of area your having problem so as to consult or look after the best mentor, books that can grant you asses to the information you need, don’t be unstable it will lead you to no were and no achievement, when your aware of the kind of information you want, you get the right books or approach the right person that can give you the needed solution (mentorship). ok lets look at mentorship for better productivity, is never easy. When  he your mentor asses you and know the dept of your emptiness that alone will ascertain weather you will be mentored daily for 3 months or twice a week for 6 month which ever way, is tired to your level of problem,  no mentorship is easy and funny because you will be scrutinized well, so that the real best of you can start existing, what made it  not to sound funny enough and easy? some may ask, because some one now control you, that is direct you on so many things, your time, money, behavior, approach system to issues of life, and basically all about you that has not been in existence, which he is now working on to reforming you into a better personality, so until the teachings are accepted,trusted, taken and applied result which takes you out from problems and failure is not permitted to be seen, mind you it take result to cancel insult. People cannot agree to work with you until the see reasons to follow you, so learn all the way and get the required knowledge, be educated for it is the only thing that projects a man to the top than ignorance which denounce and stagnant him.

     Information is the only thing that gives a man edge among his pears. the world celebrate only the elect, people are not interested in what made you to fail, or what prevented you from getting the needed knowledge because excuses are good reason for bad result. Yes, failure plus excuse is not equal to success. Why complain and keep blaming someone who is busy trying a way to better his own life. That you fail does not mean you’re a failure but your ability not to try something new made you a failure, blame someone for pushing you down but blame yourself for not getting up to continued. Know it today that the future you did not permit will not come to you. Strive to get information, acquire  the right knowledge that will consistently keep you productive, don’t let the devil put you in a tight Conner before you help yourself. Even if is not for your sake, ok do it for the generation your about or you have brought out on earth, (your children) give them a better place, better life than you enjoy. One of the attributes of a good teacher is productive students he has been able to produce. Parents and parents to be, learn to take care of your children, train up a child in the way he should grow so that when he old he will not depart from it. So if you miss informed your child the result will appear when you’re old.

     Information is key to your success that means you’re the one that can unlock your success, a saying goes like this, when a man wakes up is his morning, it take more to stay informed than to win, if your not informed how can you win so get the primary problem here solved, just as in football until you maintain your form and formation your cannot be a steady winner, so obey the principle that naturally unlock the door of your success and grant you the needed result.remember Refuse principle regain confusion, I love to seeing you change, see you at the top.

Tuesday 3 July 2012

DREAM MAKERS

     Once when Henry Ford was having lunch with a man, he asked, "who is your best friend?" when the man responded that he wasn't sure, Ford exclaimed, "i will tell you!" He took out a pencil and wrote his answer on the tablecloth: "Your best friend is he who bring out the best that is within you."

     That is what best friends do for each other, they bring out their best. Often their best is brought out by encouragement, but sometimes the best thing they do for their friends is to tell them the truth. I call these kinds of friends the DREAM MAKERS.

     In my life i have met so many dream makers, somebody like Simplicity Ezeh the director and Co-Founder of SOEF and also a photo and video studio consultant, is a great dream maker i have ever met, who never say no to my ideas even if it may not work, he will amend it. Pastor Solomon Uzoamaka is the first dream maker i met during my searching time for success, he told me great things i never know about myself, one of the days he called me and said, Oscar you're like a couk Gun waiting to be touch in the trigger, in 2010 he told me and Simplicity to never quite until we win.  Not everybody is willing to do that, because they don't want to risk the relationship, or they really don't care enough to make the effort.

     Undoubtedly, you already have friends, so you know how to develop friendships. But developing or meeting a dream maker often be different, and i want to suggest a specific way that you should approach dream maker friends. Make it a goal to be a dream maker not just to find a friend. When most people approach friendships, they look for people who will reciprocate their efforts at relationship building, and if they don't sense any kind of mutual effort from the second party, they abandon their efforts of dream making individual and move on to a different thing. If you want to achieve a great success in any walks of life, you need to keep working at being a dream making friend, even with people who don't initially put any effort into being a dream making friend back.

     Zig Ziglar said in his book SECRET OF CLOSING THE SELL If you can dream it, then you can achieve it. You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want. When i started working with Foks Investment LTD i help the organization to achieve many of their want trough me, and today they help me to achieve what i want trough them.

     If you are not willing to become other people dream makes, then, they will not be willing to be your dream maker.
     When i came in contact with Christian Chinwike the founder of Empowerment Church Religious Organization, and the manager at Ngene and Ngene Group Int'l LTD, also a bord member of SOEF when i met Christian i know he is a great dream makes and he has what it takes to take SOEF to another level, so i embrace him. Franklin Benedict the founder of Young Money Crew and an under graduate. Onowu Suniesta the general manager of Neonet System Vintures when i met Suniesta i discovered that where he is now, working unders somebody, is not where he is going to be next five years, i saw entrepreneurship in him. Pastor Sunday Ezeh an understanding friend. I thought of being their dream maker as a motivational speaker and a dream maker hunter, but i discovered that they are accommodating same great potentials and virtues of high moral standards that am in need of, so they became my dream maker and we walk together.

     Richard Exley once said: A true friend is one who hears and understand when you share your deepest feelings. He supports you when you are struggling; he corrects you, gently and with love, when you err; and he forgives you when you fail. A true friend prods you to personal growth, stretches you to your full potential. And most amazing of all, he celebrates your success as if they were his own. I saw this great quality right when i met Treasure C. Oguadimma a true love of life. Princess E. Alaka power of encouragement and understanding in her. Ijeoma Eronini spirit of motivation and relationship.  A friend like these are your dream makes.

     There is an old saying that goes like this, a friend in need is a friend indeed in other word a friend indeed is a dream maker friend who brings out the best that are in you. That entire process begins with communication, communicating with people all around you.

     Most people want to be left alone, they are not in need of any communication with anybody around them, if they do desire to interact with others, it's often to jockey for position or to get others to listen to what they have to say. How rare it is when this kind of people go out of their way make it a point to listen to others or search for a dream maker.

     Ralph Nichols said. "the most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them." Mostly dream makers, i found this particular quality in Simplicity Ezeh the director of SOEF somebody who understands as if you're talking to "God".

     If you become a consistently good listener to your dream makers friends, they will want to spend time with you. They will begin to seek you out. And if they develop a rapport with you, they will probably also begin asking advice from you, you will then becoming their dream maker. "These kind of listening is found in Emmanuel Chukwu a photo and video studio consultant in Owerri, He is a friend who always want to listen, learn and keep growing in knowledge", That is the starting point for influence and rapport with them.

     Frank A. Clark said, "To enjoy a friend, (dream maker)  you need more in common with him than hating the same people," Unfortunately, for many people who meet friend, has no positive thing in mind to gen from them, meeting people is what thy seems to have in common. So what's the solution if you don't seem to share common ground with people you're meeting. Try to discover what you have in common outside of your comfort zone.

     If you sees every body as a dream maker and a potential friend, and look for a connection inside and outside of your zone, you have a great chance of finding  common ground of relationship with the person. And that is where dream making friends are build. I have met many dream makers in my life, people that i will not have time to write their names. watch-out for my next edition on dream making.